Assumptions
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The Program - Assumptions

As a friend of mine frequently says, "Assume is made up of three words, 'ass,' 'u,' and 'me'." So that you know what I'm assuming, here's a list of things that I'm assuming (and have realized) about you and what you're looking for:

You

You're straight.
You've been called "a nice guy," "sweet," "a nice young man" or something of that nature on a fairly regular basis.
You are seldom, if ever, described as an "asshole."
You are 21 or older.
You are fairly modern in outlook. ("Women don't get equal pay for equal work? Why not?")
You want to date.
You realize you have a problem.

What you're looking for

A long-term relationship.
Note: most of this will probably work as well for a one-night stand — no moral judgements, but if you do that, wear a condom.
Someone who is also nice.
Someone physically attractive. (No more than 10 pounds more overweight than you are proportionally and whatever other requirements you may have.)
Someone who is somewhat your equal.

Assumptions I'm NOT Making

You're of a particular religion. (I'm a devout agnostic).
You're goofy looking.
You're handsome

Assumptions that I made originally but am trying to correct

You're under 40.

Now that you understand where I'm coming from, let's take a look at your problem.

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